Flying Training Story - Almost Upside Down at Night

by: Frederick Longe

With all of your flight training, there will be times when you get the notion that your instructor is mean or doesn't know what they are talking about-perhaps not in such a bold way, but it will happen. This brings me to a story I have of a night cross-country with a student.

The flight itself is a pretty simple one and is safe for night flights. The flight goes from Mesa Falcon Field to Wickenberg, Arizona. I have personally put this flight in my syllabus for many reasons. I have gotten into many arguments with instructors who worked for me about this flight. Several of them refused to do the flight and instead ended up taking the student down to Tucson. As far as I am concerned, this defeats the purpose of the night cross-country. Following a big lit-up highway in between two bright major cities does not expose you to the real situations that can happen on a night cross-country.

Don't let your instructor take you to an easy-to-find destination that is lit up like New York City. Go somewhere that is pretty difficult to find, at least for you, not your instructor. Yes, you want to make sure the instructor knows where he is going to land in the event of an engine failure, but you need to be on a flight that can get you into a little bit of trouble if you aren't paying attention.

Back to my story.

I will call the student John. You know that I am totally against using all these high-tech things for private pilot training and even instrument ratings. Remember what job number one of the pilot is ? Yes, fly the airplane! I have also already stated that it will take you about 500 hours before you have this second sense stuck in you inner memory. Even then, a difficult situation will be a battle between many parts of your brain at the same time.

John called me in the afternoon about his night flight. We verified the time, and at the end of the call, John stated that he had just gotten his new Garmin 95 latest-and-greatest GPS device and asked if he could bring it along. You probably know me pretty well by now and know exactly what my answer was: "No!"

John showed up at the airport with his cross-country planned and flight plan filed, and ready to go. Before we walked out of the office, out came that shiny new Garmin box. "Fred, you need to check this out . . . this is the new Garmin 95, top-of-the-line, latest-and-greatest . . . " This was back in 1996. Garmin was a no-name back then and was just getting into the market.

"Please, please, please can we take it with us?" After all the begging, I finally gave in. Deep in my mind somewhere, I had a little smile, and a voice just said, "Okay."

Before John even started his pre-flight, he set up his new Garmin 95 on the control column. I knew right then that we were in for a good time! I told John that he couldn't turn it on until we got out of Phoenix airspace, which is right where it starts to get nice and dark. He said, "Okay, no problem."

We took off and headed west as planned. John was right on the money with all of his checkpoints and times. Flight plan opened at the right time. He was getting an A+ at this stage of the ball game. We got about five miles west of Deer Valley airport, where it starts to get nice and dark. (Again, don't do a night cross-country when there is a full moon! It is nice to see the big bright moon from 4,500 above the ground, but it makes your night cross-country easier. If you are doing your first night flight as a licensed pilot with your girlfriend/boyfriend, go for it-that is the safe thing to do.)

John looked at me with those puppy eyes and asked, "Can I turn it on?" At this point, I just looked at him and said, "Yes." The little voice in my head spoke to me again, "Now it is time for the real lesson to begin."

John turned on the new greatest gift to mankind. The screen came on, and he said, "Look, Fred, isn't this great? It tells you everything!" The little voice in my head said, "Yeah. Right. It tells you everything except what your #1 job in an airplane is."

John kept playing with his new toy. I learned way back in 1989 that there are times when the flight instructor's job is to shut up and let the student go. This was definitely one of those times.

At first, John had it under control. He was following his line on the screen and was okay, but I knew that sooner or later, it was going to distract him from his number one job . . . Yes, fly the airplane!

A little while passed, and John decided to start playing with the screen options. I knew now that the big lesson had begun, so I just sat there. Slowly, his altitude started to go up and down-not very much at first, but I knew it was just going to get worse.

I looked at John, and his head was down looking right at the GPS. By the way, the time frame of this entire lesson was probably less than a minute.

John continued to look down and said, "Hm, I can't find the screen I am looking for." I just sat there. Slowly, he started a right turn, only a few degrees bank, heading right into the mountains. The plane began to slowly lose altitude as the right turn started to get steeper. There was no horizon at all, so John had no clue of what was going on. Luckily, he was one of the students that took my aerobatic option before solo, so he was familiar with extreme unusual attitude. But not at night.

Slowly but surely, the plane had entered the dreaded graveyard spiral at cruise power setting. I waited and waited, hoping that the sound of the wind howling across the airplane would give him a clue, but nope-he had been trained for this many times, but he didn't pick it up.

The plane kept going into a steeper bank. If it had been daytime, I would have let him get upside down, but not at night. Finally, it was time to open my mouth. "Anything wrong?"

John looked up, and the string of four-letter words began to flow. He got the plane under control. Power back wings level and nose level. However, he was still heading on the quickest path to meet God, right into the mountains a few miles north of the very dimly lit highway I plan as my emergency landing spot.

I said to him, "What can you see in front of you?" "He replied with, "Nothing." I said, "So that means . . . ?" I got the reply, "I am flying right into the ground." That answer was pretty much correct; with his new heading, he was flying straight into the hills. Since we lost about 1,500 feet, our altitude was perfect for the big smack.

I raised my voice slightly and said, "If you can't see anything, you are in trouble. Find some light, start climbing, and head in that direction."

John got the plane under control, turned the GPS off, and we had an uneventful flight to Wickenberg and then back home to Falcon Field.

When we got back on the ground, John said, "I think I am going to learn to fly before I worry about that GPS." He also requested some night unusual attitude training. I also highly recommend this.

So again, the little lesson is fly the airplane! John got distracted from that job by his little GPS. If you insist on using this stuff, make sure you know how to use it, and don't try to learn it in the plane, especially at night!

As far as disorientation goes, it can happen very quickly, and when it does, it is not going to be pretty. It has happened to me in actual instrument conditions. I had all my ratings, and it still took a few minutes before the blood pressure went down.

Just remember this little unusual attitude check, which you should be able to repeat at the bar when you are about to fall on the floor:

Airspeed High, Or, "I Hear the Wind Howling Outside the Plane"

1: Power Back
2: Wings Level
3: Nose of the Airplane Level
4: Once You Have the Plane under Control, then bring the power back in, and get back to your altitude and heading

Airspeed Low: or" I don't hear any wind blowing outside the airplane"

1: Nose Forward
2: Wings Level
3: Once you have the nose at descent attitute, then add power. Why? If you do not remember, please read my spin training story.

If you are out on a dark night, you are going to be fighting that attitude indicator. Get some training on night unusual attitudes. Then come back a few weeks later and do it again until you automatically react, especially after some time has gone by.

Make sure you go somewhere that is not easy, and make sure it is on a dark night. Don't cut yourself short on your Flight Training

Hope to See You in the Sky

Airfreddy

Frederick Longe has been flying since 1985. He has owned many airplanes and owned a flight school in Mesa, Arizona . He has logged over 9,000 Hours of flight instruction alone. In 1998 Longe was awarded one of the first Master CFI Designations in the country by the National Association Of Flight Instructors. Frederick Longe also has Two Degrees in Professional Aeronautics from Embry Riddle Aeronautical University.

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Why Can't Women Approach Men?

by: Joseph Matthews

I bet this is familiar to you...

A guy stands at a bar, surveying the scene for a woman he finds attractive. He's got his drink in his hand, trying to work up enough "liquid courage" to make his move.

He sees more than a few girls he'd like to meet. Maybe even a few of them notice him and send him a few "subtle signals" to let him know it's okay to approach.

Unfortunately, most guys may not pick up on those "subtle signs" and wind up standing there, drink in hand, wondering when the courage to approach will overtake them.

Wouldn't it just be easier if the girl would approach the guy?

The answer is: YES! In a perfect world, the girl would approach the guy, and all uncertainty would be eliminated.

But this is a fairy tale. I'd say 98% of the women out there would never approach a guy - even if they find him attractive. And thinking that this is actually a POSSIBILITY is a major reason why most guys end up going home alone at the end of the night.

Here is a very simple FACT:

If you like a girl, and you're waiting around for her to approach you, you will be waiting a very, VERY long time!

Of course, this is a very frustrating reality for most men - especially shy men who desperately cling to the fantasy of a woman walking up to them and professing their undying love.

"If only it was easier!" They lament. "Why do men have to be the ones to approach women?"

To me, this question is like complaining "Why does the sky have to be blue? Why can't it be red?" The fact of the matter is this - it just is the way things are.

As to the question of WHY men have to be the ones to approach women, and not the other way around, we have to look at how our culture and tradition have shaped the way women are taught.

Historically, women have been extremely sheltered from men. A man with a daughter would want to keep her a virgin until marriage, so in order to court the girl, it was up to the man to take action because the woman would be sheltered by her father, her brothers, and any other male (and female) family members there may be.

This goes back to biblical times, where women were considered a "burden" because they could not perform hard manual labor or inherit wealth, such as sons were able to do.

Back then, if the woman was not a virgin, or worse, had a child out of wedlock, she was considered unworthy for marriage. That left the father caring for her the rest of his life.

Not exactly the ideal situation for the father, so as you can see, there was ample reason to keep his daughters "sheltered."

As time went on, and women became less sheltered, there was still a stigma attached to women who were too "forward." Women don't want to be shamed by being called a "slut" or a "tramp," so from a social perspective, women approaching men was always a big no-no. This doesn't stop women for letting their interest be KNOWN, but it does keep some of them from being too forward with their desires.

In the 80s, this was reversed for a while and feminist the world over said it was okay for a woman to ask a man out. However, once women saw how much it sucked to ask someone out and get rejected, they just stopped doing it. There's a reason that trend never caught on.

Unfortunately, though women seemed to come to their senses, due to the media exposure over the trend, I don't think many men caught onto the idea that women decided not to peruse this type of courtship. So now, we have a situation where it is okay for a "modern woman" to ask a man out. But just because it's okay to do something, doesn't mean people will do it.

Every time a guy comes to me and wants to understand why he has to be the one to approach a woman, I tell him to read the book "The Rules." It's basically a "pick up guide for women." But it has some very interesting psychology in it that men can learn a lot from. (I know that reading this book personally helped me understand a lot about the way women think!)

Basically, according to this book, a woman feels that if a man doesn't approach her, he's not attracted to her. So it's just easier to deal with the guys who approach because then they can decide whether or not they like them. After all, it's always preferable to go for a sure thing, right?

However, who are most of the guys who have no problem approaching women? Jerks and butt-holes! That's why most women have poor opinions about men, because the good ones are too scared or shy to approach, giving free reign to the self-absorbed morons who give our gender a bad name.

So if you look at it from a woman's perspective, allowing men to approach them is a preferable position to be in.

But let me say this - having the responsibility to approach women is actually a GOOD thing from a guy's perspective as well.

Sure, rejection and uncertainty suck. But we get to choose who we approach and only go after women we like. These poor girls who have to stand around and wait to be approached get losers walking up to them every day, using cheesy pickup lines and doing stupid things to try and impress them. If you were in their position, you'd probably get sick of it too.

This is one of the reasons I focus on approaching so much. Knowing how to effectively approach women really does empower you. It gives you ultimate choice in your love life.

Waiting for a woman to approach you is like waiting for Godot. It ain't never gonna happen. And if it does, the woman is either a "professional" or she'll most likely cheat on you the first chance she gets and break your heart.

That's just the way it goes. But instead of hating things the way they are, accept them and use them to your advantage! It's much easier than despairing about it and wishing things were different.

When you find yourself at a bar, drink in hand, remember that the choice is yours. Be GLAD you have that choice yourself, and have fun with it.

Meeting women doesn't have to be a chore. In fact, it SHOULDN'T be! It needs to be an enjoyable process. And the sooner you stop hating things "the way they are" and accept things as "the way they need to be," you can start having more fun and much more success in your love life.

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Does Your "Nice Guy" Behavior Get In The Way Of Your Love Life?

by: Joseph Matthews

My friends, a question for you...

You have heard the term "Nice guys finish last", correct?

Well, I'm here to tell you that saying is 100% true! But not for the reasons you may think.

Being a "Nice Guy" with women doesn't work, not because you get too caught up in what a girl wants and get stuck as a friend, but because Nice Guys are typically very, very...

SELFISH!

That's right. When you're a "Nice Guy," you're not really being nice, you're being EMOTIONALLY GREEDY.

Let me explain...

An enormous problem for a lot of guys, one that will almost always lead to difficulty with women, is the "Nice Guy factor".

Countless men rely on others to determine their self worth, due to having a weak identity and very little self esteem.

These guys are at the mercy of everyone else in their lives, so they try their best to please the people around them, hoping they'll continue to think highly of them, so they can feel good about themselves. That's not so bad, right? It feels good when others approve of you, doesn't it?

Most people look at this behavior and would instantly categorize these poor men in the "Nice Guys" column. After all, they're the ones who don't like conflict. They're the ones who don't want to make waves. They're the ones who want everyone to be happy.

They are also some of the most selfish people on the planet.

Seriously. I know this because I used to be one of these people, and I know all their dirty little secrets! And the point of this newsletter is to make everyone who thinks of themselves as "nice" or as a "victim" really, really irritated!!!

All of you "Nice Guys" out there reading this are nothing more than "people pleasers." Somewhere in your life, you found out that pleasing people is a way to get other people to like you and admire you so you can feel good about yourself.

The source of this could be anyone - your parents, your friends, a relative. But somewhere, you learned to feel good about yourself based on what others think of you.

But I'm here to tell you that using other people's feelings and goodwill like that is not only harmful, but dishonest!

There are people who "can't stand conflict" or believe that if you "can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all", or live by some similar slogan. They live in an ideal world. It's just not this one.

I'm sure on that planet, they get all the moral support they need from anyone.

But that's the crux of the issue right there. All you "Nice Guys" have a losing mentality about your need for support. Your methodology is: "I am so loving and giving and nice, I expect you to treat me the exact same way as I treat you!"

Here is the typical thought process of Nice Guys:

--"Don't disagree with me! It's not fair because I do so much for you!!!"

--"Please be sympathetic and comfort me when I'm upset! I'm needy and can't comfort myself."

--"Always be in a good mood. I am always trying to make you happy and if I can't, I feel ashamed and mad at you!"

--"Pay attention to me!! Whenever I need it, I've definitely earned it!!"

--"Take care of me!!! Do the things I can't do for myself due to fear! I do them for you, so please return the favor!!"

Take a look at all that. Now ask yourself how you'd react if someone was saying those things to you. You'll understand then, where women are coming from when it comes to dating "Nice Guys".

Once that happens and the needy demands of "Nice Guys" go unmet, they fall into the deep pits of self-pity and depression. They also feel a lot of shame and anger at their failure to please the women they want, and though these "Nice Guys" can keep their pleasant demeanor up for a long time, their resentment of the women they want to please will grow and grow until it explodes in anger and rage, either directed at others, themselves, or both.

This kind of mentality can extremely damage your self respect and cause others to not want to be around you.

So what's a "Nice Guy" to do?

If you want to have success with women, you need to stop being agreeable and instead be straightforward and honest, especially when you have to go against the wishes of others and disappoint them. You can do this with kindness and sensitivity, but you MUST do this nonetheless.

Only by being honest, with yourself and with others, will you be able to overcome the selfish "nice guy" habits you have adopted in your life.

And when you do this, you will stop caring about what other people think of you because the source of your validation comes from the fact that you're being true to yourself and straightforward with others, and you will cease to harbor resentment and anger, and have more self respect and less depression.

That is the only way I have found to truly stop being a "Nice Guy" and become the type of man other people can respect.

Being honest with others in this manner might seem difficult, but it's more rewarding than any other behavior you can adopt.

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3 Effective Ways To Get Your Ex Back - Even If It Seems Hopeless

by: Melissa Haworth

No matter how bleak your situation is, there is hope for you. If you're serious about reversing your breakup, here are 3 effective ways to get your ex back - even if it all seems hopeless.

#1 Way

When you're looking for ways to get your ex back, the first thing you need to understand is that your ex has probably left you because the relationship was more effort than it was worth and because he/she did not see any value in you, at least not enough to make them want to stick it out. So what does that tell you?

Yes, you need to make yourself more valuable in the eyes of your ex. And by more valuable I don't mean start sending your ex expensive gifts or stuff like that. What I mean is you need to transform yourself into the kind of person that your ex would love to be with; someone that they find is extremely hard to stay away from.

Thus, you need to build your confidence, become more compassionate and considerate of other peoples' feelings, and become more committed to relationships and people.

#2 Way

Make sure your ex knows you want to get back together with him/her. You may think that this sounds like silly advice and may be wondering to yourself, "Of course I want my ex back. What's there to tell?"

But you'll be surprised to know that very often people don't realize that their ex may still have feelings and wants them to come back. And in not realizing this, they never even consider the option of reconciliation because for them the break up is a done deal. Thus, make sure you actually come right out and tell your ex that you want to get back together and don't simply assume they know it.

#3 Way

Take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror. Some may say that only a shallow person would fall for someone because of their looks. But let's be real, physical attraction is a big part of any relationship. It's human nature for people who have been in a relationship for some time to start neglecting their looks, which may indirectly fuel a breakup. Thus, before you approach your ex, ensure that you're looking your best. The physical difference will make a very positive impact to how you're feeling as well.

If you've just been through a break up, you might be feeling lost, confused and frustrated about all your attempts to get your ex back.

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Get Back With Your Ex - Does The No Contact Rule Work! Critical Help And Advice To Get Her To Come Back

by: Thomas Latham

If you've decided to get back with your ex, then there is no doubt this can be a difficult course of action. As I'm sure you understand women can be extremely emotional when compared with men. And so you could never be sure when she is going to take something the wrong way and fly off the deep end at you again. And this is what makes it so tough, in spite of you trying to justify anything you did incorrectly and asking her to forgive you.

Don't discount the fact some women can be plain spiteful and wish to see their boyfriend wriggle on the hook. Consequently from here on in you are walking on egg shells, a single stumble and everything becomes a bigger mess than before. Your close friends will endeavour to help and invest there Penny's worth, but ultimately you're the one who will either get back with your ex or lose her once and for all.

I'm certain you have come across the no contact rule? This rule is often regularly advised for a while now by relationship experts because it succeeds 9 times out of ten. Fundamentally it means that you have no connection with your ex at all, therefore telephone calls, e-mail and text messages are out. Don't pretend to run into her accidentally and whatever you do, please do not stalk her. The main reason this succeeds so effectively is actually because, if there is no contact you cannot say or do the wrong thing that will upset her furthermore than she currently is. You quite literally fade from her radar and provide her time to sort things out.

Even when this is happening you will find out if you've the possibility to get back with your ex, or it will be a case of moving on with your life. It could be that she still cares for you and may simply be teaching you a lesson, If that is so the distance between the two of you might induce her to fall in love with you once more. Since you were man enough to allow her some time and space, she's going to also respect you for that.

Then again she may well reach the conclusion you have decided to call it quits and the relationship is now over. Suppose that is the situation, since she's lost you it's going to set off her feelings to boot into gear in another way. She is going to panic and get irritated that you've found someone else, and this will make her start looking for you.

At this point she has had a taste of her own medicine she will come running and stating her undying love for you. At this point don't be silly trying to play hard to get or make her suffer for running you thru the mangle. Take stock and be satisfied you are in a position to get back with your ex plus be grateful as well for the no contact rule.

Having suffered many relationship set backs, i decided to seek help from many experts, professional and non professional.

While i am now in a relationship that does has it's ups and downs, i am more equipped to cope with any aspect or situation that comes along.

If you are having trouble with your relationship, don't be afraid to seek advice, who knows one day you might be writing articles on the subject just like me.

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Use the Chinese Zodiac to Attract Your Soul Mate

by: Marilyn Nash

The Chinese zodiac can be your Love Guide. You don't have a chance at love until you understand your own unique personality characteristics and how you interact with other people. Use the signs of the Chinese zodiac to attract your best match for life long compatibility, romance and love.

I've never really figured out what attraction is. Oh I can give you a shopping list of characteristics that I find attractive in a man - but then suddenly I'll find myself attracted to someone who isn't anything like my list.

Yes, when I was single and a LOVE DISASTER I could be attracted all over the place, but most often what I ended up with was short-term "attractions". That's before I found the Chinese zodiac.

The wise and ancient Chinese zodiac is a 12 year cycle of animal signs: Rat, Ox, Tiger, Rabbit, Dragon, Snake, Horse, Goat, Monkey, Rooster, Dog and Pig. Each sign rules for one year and then the cycle gets repeated. The Chinese zodiac animal sign that rules the year of your birth has given you certain basic characteristics and helped to define your basic nature.

And so you're thinking, "that's very interesting, Marilyn" - but what does a Monkey, Horse, or Sheep have to do with finding my Soul Mate?" Hang on - I'll tell you.

I used to carry around my "wish-list" for my future Soul Mate. I had been told to visualize him - this wonderful, smiling, generous, loving man -and I did. But I could only do that from a very surface place. Oh yes, he was to be a moral sort, and loyal, a credit to mankind, etc - but actually I never considered how I would interact with him. Except of course, that we would adore each other and live happily ever after. What I did not take into consideration was - get ready - ME!

Once you are aware of your basic characteristics and understand and accept your positives and negatives, then you will be ready to understand and find the partner who will be your best match. The Chinese zodiac becomes your Road map to your Soul Mate.

Location, location, location! Surely you've heard that before and it is definitely true. Your position on the Chinese zodiac is the reason you immediately click with some people and do not with others. This is why you can fall in love with your opposite on the Chinese zodiac wheel - but you have to understand that that relationship will require lots of negotiation.

Once you understand the location of your sign to the others you will be able to see how to make your life work smoother. In business - this is why one person will be a good partner for you or not. In love it will determine just how much effort you will have to put into it to keep things happy.

The Chinese zodiac signs will help you find someone you can grow with. Someone who will respect your personal uniqueness as well as your faults and you will be able to do the same for him. The Chinese zodiac can help you find your most compatible match.

Is attraction and even love enough in the face of conflicting goals and habits and experiences? Be true to yourself when you're looking for compatibility in love. You are the starting point on the map.

Your Chinese zodiac sign is a great place to start understanding your own unique characteristics and nature. Discover yourself first then use the Chinese zodiac as your Road map to Love.

I'm Marilyn Nash and I was a LOVE DISASTER! I'm not a psychologist or astrologer. A friend suggested that I learn about the Chinese Zodiac and it gave me information about myself that helped me understand what I had been doing to sabotage my love life. The wise and ancient Chinese figured it out centuries ago. The Chinese Zodiac can be your Love Guide. You'll find help for compatibility and romance here: http://www.ChineseZodiacLoveGuide.com

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by: Kayla Dettman

Is there anything you aspired more to be than to be the object of a man's fantasy? Have you finally met that special someone you dream of becoming your boyfriend one day?

If you think you can do something more than just to wait around for the right guy then you have come to the right place. This article wants to address those issues that many women have right now and that are how to make a guy want her.

Well, all I can say is that I have been there too as I grew up I saw so many women effortlessly attracting men and making the man of their dreams want them so bad. By doing some light research and basing everything on what I have seen time and time again let me share with you simple ways you can make him want you.

Here are a few simple ways that I have mad based on what me and my man experienced. Make sure that you are able to adapt these simple steps.

Simply Irresistible

The first step I took to become irresistible to men was my sense of humour. Improving ones sense humour takes a lot more than just reading through jokes or learning new tricks but simply having a more positive outlook in life. Inner happiness really translates to how you look and act around other people.

Be Naturally Sexy

I have seen so many advertisements of enticing women and based on my experience there is nothing that compares with how a man appreciate the genuine side of a woman. You should always make sure to show the natural you if you desire nothing more than to be wanted by that man. In doing this you make yourself a delight to his memory.

Get to Know Him

Make sure to find out what his interests are and what particular things does he like and things that make him snap. Do not stalk him just simply ask him whenever you have the opportunity to bring it up in a conversation. Remember that this is a two way and a venue for you to discover new things that will help you improve tour relationship with each other. I was able to get to know my husband by simply observing what he did the most during weekends and I tried doing with him to make him feel special and make my man want to with me everyday and every night.

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Best Advice After A Break Up - Beware Of Rebound Relationships

by: Melissa Haworth

The best piece of advice after a break up you can get is to make sure you don't get caught in a rebound relationship. A rebound relationship is one where either one or both the partners are still not over their previous relationship. Thus, while it is possible to find true love once again after you have broken up; if it happens too soon after the break up then the odds of it being a rebound relationship are high.

Advice After A Break Up: Are You In A Rebound Relationship

Here are some signs that will help you to determine whether you're in a rebound relationship or not:

Is your ex almost always in your thoughts? A lot of people can't stop thinking about their ex even when they are in someone else's company. For instance, you are out for dinner with your new partner but are thinking that the last time you visited that restaurant was with your ex. Thus, if such things are happening with you, then you're not completely over your ex and could be in a rebound relationship.

Can you think or talk about your ex freely or does that bring back a lot of pain and sadness? If you find that you become sad or perhaps even angry when remembering your ex, then you have unresolved feelings. And if you're in another relationship with such feelings, then it is very likely that you're on the rebound.

Are you constantly looking back and thinking that 'only if' you had done certain things... or 'only if' you had listened more... or maybe 'only if' you were around more...things would be different? If you're still not over the 'what ifs' and the 'only ifs', you're definitely not ready for a new relationship.

Thus, ensure that you are not in a rebound relationship as such a bond is not fair to either you or your partner. This is one piece of advice after a break up you should never ignore.

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Managers vs. Agents

by: Anthony J Spotora Esq

Recently, I was invited to attend the live performance of an "American Idol" taping in Hollywood, CA. This taping, or rather, pop-hysteria, led to conversations relating to the management of those that do not win the title of the next "American Idol".

Now we all know that the winner is locked into a contract with Music Label/Management Company, "19", but what of the other near-Idols? Who gets to run their proverbial show? This question, in accompaniment to some of the surrounding conversations and eager talent managers, reminded me of a piece of legalese that has come up time and time again in my practice. The issue: Managers vs. Agents.

Whether you are a bona fide Talent Manager, a Stage Mom, or the girlfriend who listened to her boyfriend's band play one night at the local pub and decided to serve as its manager, you should understand the differences between the roles that managers and agents are legally entitled to play. . . for your own good!

For starters, agents are licensed by the state they work in and most commonly earn their money by negotiating deals for their clients. Typically, they also enter into a client agreement which is, in pertinent part, regulated by industry labor unions such as, the Screen Actors Guild (SAG), the Writers Guild of America (WGA) and, the Directors Guild of America (DGA). Through these regulated agreements, the commissions that agents charge their clients are legally bound to a prescribed percentage. Furthermore, it should be noted that agents may not serve as a producer on their clients' projects.

On the other hand, managers are not commission-regulated, do not need a license to 'manage' and, can charge their clients 15% or more. . . and often do. Moreover, managers may produce film or television if they wish to and so of course, they are also afforded the 'glamour' element in that they might find themselves in the spotlight one Award evening with an Emmy or an Oscar in tow.

In light of these representative differences, and as you might imagine, the ever-evolving entertainment industry has shifted gears over the years to accommodate and benefit from both of these roles. Without surprise to anyone, these specialty services have impacted not only the way talent pursues work, but the manner in which movies and television are actually made.

So what's the big deal!? We all have a job to do, right!?

Well, one common issue arises from infuriated agents who argue that managers who attach themselves to their clients' projects as producers are not legitimate producers and are consequently driving up production costs. Subsequent to such a contention, agents have put pressure on industry guilds by lobbying to either deregulate agents, or regulate managers. And, while no exact resolution has been reached to date, the SAG has begun to pay closer attention to the black letter law and has consequently cracked down on the procurement of employment by managers for their clients. On the what you ask? On getting the talent a gig!

In California, Labor Code Sec. 1700.4(a) defines "talent agency" as "a person or corporation who engages in the occupation of procuring, offering, promising, or attempting to procure employment of engagements for an artist." Moreover, Sec. 1700.5 provides that "[n]o person shall engage in or carry on the occupation of a talent agency without first procuring a license...from the Labor Commissioner."

Therefore, ATTENTION ALL MANAGERS: Be Weary of The Services You Provide!

Procuring employment for your artist-client is not only illegal but, should you attempt to collect any unpaid fees, you can rightfully not only be denied those monies for having performed a service you were not licensed to perform but, you can also be ordered to return any fees already received!

So what's the bottom-line? Both forms of talent reps are still widely used and widely needed in the 'industry'. However, it is important that Managers know their role in their clients' professional lives and also know the potential consequences they may face if they knowingly (or even unknowingly) provide services reserved for licensed Agents.

Anthony J. Spotora, Esq. has been called "The Cure for The Common Lawyer". He has an extensive background in Business/Corporate & Entertainment/IP matters having worked for companies such as Warner Bros. and Columbia Pictures at Sony Entertainment. He has been the Managing Attorney of his full service Los Angeles law firm, Spotora & Associates, PC, for 10 years. http://www.spotoralaw.com

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Breaking The Secret Code Of Women

by: Joseph Matthews

Sometimes, a woman will say one thing, but it's later revealed that she meant something completely different.

I'm sure most of you guys have experienced this before.

Like those women who say that they'll only date someone who is taller than them.

And then, the next guy you see her out on a date with is about a foot shorter than she is.

Sometimes a woman will say she prefers to be taken out to dinner and a movie.

And then, she tells you the best date she ever had was when a guy took her on a walk on the beach.

Sometimes the woman says she's looking for a guy with a nice, steady job who can provide for her.

And then, she's seen galavanting around with some dirt-poor schmoe who doesn't have a penny to his name.

Any way you look at it, there are hordes of women who claim to like one thing, but when it comes down to it, they respond to a whole different thing entirely.

This is called "Girl Speak."

Guys generally don't understand what is going on here - they take this "Girl Speak" at face value and miss what is being said.

But this is a huge, HUGE mistake!

Women very rarely say what they actually mean. And because of that, they respond really well to guys who know how to interpret what they are really saying.

Take me for instance...

I'm a fat, bald, ugly shlub. Definitely no winner in the looks department.

But I've dated women who say they aren't into "fat" guys. In fact, they actually prefer guys who "take care of themselves" and "go to the gym."

Yet they still agree to date me!

I've dated girls who were way younger than me. One of my more recent girlfriends was 20 years old. I'm 30. This girl wasn't interested in dating an older guy, yet for me she made an exception.

I dated one particular girl who refused to date anyone but black men. I'm as white as chalk. But the girl made an exception for me.

If I had taken the "Girl Speak" seriously, I wouldn't have gotten another meeting with the girls.

Luckily, I know a trick to getting past the biggest girl speak objections.

You know the ones...

"I only like guys with great bodies."

"A guy who wants to take me out needs to have a nice car."

"I want a tall man."

"I want a guy my own age."

"I have a boyfriend."

"I'm not looking for a serious relationship."

Blah, blah, blah.

So how do I do it? Well, its fairly simple actually...

Try changing her EMOTIONS instead of changing her mind.

If some woman goes on about some certain thing she says is attractive, ignore the detail she is claiming is attractive. The truth is, she's not saying what is really attracting her.

Because she's not aware of it herself.

When a girl tells you something like "I like to date tall guys," she's not telling you she's attracted to guys who are tall.

She's telling you she's attracted to the way tall guys make her FEEL.

Normally, if you ask a girl why she likes tall guys, she will share with you that maybe she "feels safer" with tall men.

So in that case, she's looking to feel secure with the guy she's dating.

Guess what? You don't have to be tall to make a woman FEEL secure! you just need to know how to trigger that emotion inside her.

So let's say you want to get a woman attracted to you - no matter what you look like.

Do you know how to make a woman feel that kind of attraction?

The key is making her feel FUN when she's around you. If you can make a woman feel fun, chances are she'll feel attracted.

Why?

Because attraction is all about feeling good! And if you can create some good old fashioned emotional tension in there - guess what?

She'll wind up being attracted to you!

And if she's attracted to you, it's really easy beyond that point!

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5 Dating Rules That You Should Not Break If You Want To Succeed at Dating

by: Lucy OBrien

Love is not predictable so why should dating have rules? Well, the reason for this is that when women follow their hearts and not their heads during dating, the way that they act around men is not always in their own best interests. You can't expect to treat a man like you would treat a girlfriend if you want to make him crazy about you. Whether or not you agree, here are 5 dating rules that you must not break if you want to succeed at dating:

Rule #1 - Don't get Attached Too Quickly

He's gorgeous and cute on the surface but take your time and get to know the real person before you allow yourself to attach to him. This will save you a lot of heartbreak and disappointment when you find out he's not the man you thought he was or he was never really looking for a relationship. If you take some time to find out who he is first, you can eliminate the bad ones quickly and find yourself a top quality man.

Rule #2 - Don't Pressurise or Chase

OK, so this one seems unfair. Why should we have to sit back and wait while we let the man do the chasing? The reason is that chasing a man generally does not work in the long-term. A man will generally resist any pressure that you put on him and you could find yourself in a battle. Generally, pursuit is in the genes of a man. If you make it easy for him, he will not find you half as interesting as if you present a challenge. He might be flattered at first, but he will lose interest quickly. Don't believe me? Next time you are dating, try holding back just a little bit and see how much it sparks his interest.

Rule #3 - Don't Expect Too Much Too Soon

Don't think that you are in a relationship just because you've had a few dates or he seems really into you. If you want to succeed at dating, you must take it slowly and be patient. When you start to display premature expectations of a relationship, everything changes and he starts to feel pressurised. Make sure you stay cool if you want to get that guy.

Rule #4 - Don't Reveal Too Much Too Soon

We women are fairly open creatures and we like to be honest. When we feel close to someone it is easy for us to open up and spill everything out about what has gone wrong in our lives and relationships. When you first meet a man, resist the urge to tell him anything that he might interpret negatively. It is easy to put a man off with tales of past boyfriends or premature confessions, so be on your guard and save these for when your relationship is stronger.

Rule #5 - Don't Sleep With Him Straight Away

OK, so you don't like this one either, but it's a fact. When you sleep with a man, you will start to become attached to him, even before you have established that he is a suitable partner. Now that you are attached to him, you will have expectations of a relationship. You have presented yourself as easy prey and the challenge is over for him before it begins. You have already broken most of these dating rules. Yes, he will happily sleep with you, although now he is more likely to see you as someone to have sex with rather than someone to have a relationship with.

When you hold back and see yourself and your body as too valuable to just give away to someone you barely know, he will see you as valuable too. He will be intrigued and want you more. You will be laying the foundations for long-term attraction and a relationship. When you don't give into your urges to break these rules, you will be able succeed at dating.

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